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BIYC
If you’re wondering why you’re never in the mood for some
sexual healing, it could be because of numerous things. From your schedule to
whether or not your subconscious is on the same page with your sexual needs- it
all affects your needs as well as your overall performance. We’ll name a few
and you can make judgments under your own terms.
Being overly occupied
If there’s one thing that can kill your sex drive faster,
it’s having a hundred + one things to do. You’re secretly prioritizing when you
should do your laundry, when your sister’s birthday is again, what you’ll do
when your friend Charlie comes in from New York, how many hours of sleep you’ll
get after this, and don’t forget whether or not that charge will post on your
account in the morning. With all that going on its no wonder you can’t get an
erection/get lubricated the way you need to for some pleasurable exercise.
Underlying conflicts
Through numerous studies, it’s been proven that women are
most self-conscious about their bodies. If it’s the first time they’re going to
engage in intimacy, there’s a chance that they’re thinking about how they look
at that angle instead of focusing on what’s important – reaching that orgasmic
level of pure satisfaction.
Stressful day = no mojo in your pants
Above all else, stress is the biggest cock-block to ever
roam the earth. It’s practically impossible to get in the mood when you’re
stressed out about something. Whatever it is will inevitably take over your
emotions; take over your mind- inevitably, taking over your sexual performance.
Do yourself a favor, take a deep breath & exhale. Let go of the stress and
try to concentrate on how hot your partner looks, hopefully that’ll get things
moving in the right direction.
These are some of the few, but some of the few that are
most detrimental. Just remember to clear your mind and enjoy the ride!
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