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Sex alone can be quite stressful, especially when it’s the first time with your current partner. Although there are probably endless tips on how to enhance an orgasm, we thought we’d focus on three particular things that might get in the way of an orgasm- these are especially true for women. Avoid thinking the following things while you’re getting busy, we wouldn’t want you to waste a perfectly good orgasm opportunity!
Avoid thinking of anything on your “to-do” list
Women are infamous for creating lists- chore lists, grocery lists, list of bills, ect. Also, depending on your profession, work-related tasks may run through your head as things begin to get hot and heavy. It shouldn’t happen, you shouldn’t be thinking about your next task at hand. Don’t think about stopping to get gas on your way home, and definitely don’t think about what you need to buy during your next Target run. Focus on the lover in front of you; think of what you can do to please them.
C’mon, let’s be realistic- you’re having sex not shooting a five page spread for Vanity Fair. Don’t think of what angle is your best, what side your lover is seeing you from. Stressing about what you look like is only going to prolong the wait until you’re the big O. Instead of focusing on your body, why don’t you focus on your lover’s – chances are you’ll become more aroused once you feel their body up a bit.Avoid trying to foresee your future
The more you wonder, “when is it going to happen?” the more anxious your body gets; the more anxious your body gets the less likely it is to relax enough to feel any kind of pleasure. Just relax and enjoy the ride, no pun intended.
To summarize, you should worry less about you and redirect that energy into adding pleasure to the entire experience. Chances are, the more your partner is satisfied, the more they’ll want to return the favor.
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