Kinky Moves He Wont Forget

There is something sexy about a man who is open to change things up in the bedroom and willing to try new things, especially when his lady can take the lead. Whether it is something kinky and rough or a night of pure intimacy and love making, there is no harm in creating a new experience for that sexy someone in your life. So thanks to a little exploration we have gathered a handful of our favorite moves out there and interpreted them in our own little naughty way to help spice things up in between the sheets! Be creative in how you perform these moves or even add a little something extra to make it your own. Present these moves to your lover and we guarantee you’ll be in for an experience you won’t forget.

1. Put on red or black (chose a sexy shade), over-the-knee boots and nothing else. Shove him against the wall, counter, car…wherever gets you hot, gently tug on his hair, and whisper, "Tonight, you are going to do whatever I say”. You can follow that with any form of punishment you’d like if he doesn’t listen. Look at as a chance to get your way, ‘or else’ opportunity.

2. Surprise your man by keeping him in suspense. Try blindfolding him with his tie or any piece of his clothing or yours and lead him to a spot in the house or office to somewhere you two haven't gotten down and dirty before. For him, the fact that you're in total control, is blinded and has no idea where he is makes this move ultra hot and steamy.

3. Direct your guy by pointing with one finger to sit down (this can be anywhere) without saying one word. Turn as if you are walking away from him and seductively begin to take off your thong and use it to tie his hands together. Turn back face forward to him and proceed with a lap dance, teasing him with what he desires to have. Throw in a sensual kiss or lick on his body here and there just to make him crave you even more.

4. Create a naughty scenario giving you and your man the opportunity to role play. Chose a character where you have to call him Mr. or Sir, Etc. Make sure you are the submissive one. If you forget to refer to him by his appropriate title you get a naughty spanking for being a bad girl. Or try having your guy refer to you as the dominant (switch roles), and the same rules will apply to him. Either way it’s a win-win for you both. And add any sex move you want along with this tease to really spice up the thrill.

5. For a little rough house with your lover, slit a small hole in the crotch of a sexy pair of panties, something that can be easily ripped. Initiate the four play and once things start heating up, put his hand down there…exactly where he can feel the tear and in a low whisper demand he rip off your panties and enter inside you. This will definitely bring out the animalistic side to that naughty man in your life.

6. And lastly a favorite! Go down on your man, this is a game of “what I say goes”! Under your strict orders he can't climax until he has your okay to do so. The closer he gets to releasing himself, steadily pull away and then start again at whatever pace you see fit, you pick the tempo and position. And keep in mind, this will be just as awesome when he does it to you too –creating anticipation for you both resulting in an extremely sexy orgasm you equally won’t forget.


So no matter who you share these moves with just remember to have fun with it! Don’t take things too seriously and feel free to add your own twist to things. The best way to spice up any love life is change, so keep these moves in mind next time you’re ready to turn up the heat sexually. There’s no harm in trying something new!

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Suck it easy

There’s nothing quite as pleasurable as oral sex. Whether you’re receiving it or giving it you should be fully aware of how to make the experience as enjoyable as possible. The act of fellatio, for those curious minds, is an act of oral stimulation of a male’s penis by their sexual counterpart. It’s quite often referred to as a BJ, blow job, giving head, sucking off- to name a few. To most, it’s a sensational feeling to receive or be able to provide it for your partner. With that said, here are a few tidbits that might be helpful. 

1. Timing is everything
Although there aren’t many men that will turn down a good session, there is such thing as an appropriate time. We wouldn’t suggest you jump down to your knees right away, try teasing him for a little while beforehand. The more he wants it, the better it’ll feel. Plus, you want to give him a sufficient amount of time to get into the mood. As much as ladies would like it to be true, men cannot get an erection on command.

2. Take control of the situation
Keep in mind that the mouth, as a muscle, has a wider range of muscular movements than a vagina does- so take full advantage of it! For instance, you can use your tongue for an array of naughty actions; you’re able to suck which is a different feeling all together; you can use your tongue as you caress his body in other places. Keep in mind that you’re doing it to please him, so you should try to accommodate the way he likes it.

3. Keep things fresh
Oral stimulation requires that the penis is actually stimulated. By this we simply suggest that you try to mix up your techniques every so often. If he can predict the play-by-play foreplay (no pun intended) then it’s probably not going to be the most satisfying experience for him. Really get to know his penis and know which parts are most sensitive.

4. Balls need loving too
Don’t forget about their balls! Sounds funny but if you remember to gently rub or cup them within your hands you’ll increase the sensation they feel, almost immediately!

More than anything else, remember that it’s a marathon not a sprint. Sometimes the finish line is a bit farther than you expected but with each step you take, you’ll get a little closer.

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Sex(less) Drive

If you’re wondering why you’re never in the mood for some sexual healing, it could be because of numerous things. From your schedule to whether or not your subconscious is on the same page with your sexual needs- it all affects your needs as well as your overall performance. We’ll name a few and you can make judgments under your own terms.

Being overly occupied

If there’s one thing that can kill your sex drive faster, it’s having a hundred + one things to do. You’re secretly prioritizing when you should do your laundry, when your sister’s birthday is again, what you’ll do when your friend Charlie comes in from New York, how many hours of sleep you’ll get after this, and don’t forget whether or not that charge will post on your account in the morning. With all that going on its no wonder you can’t get an erection/get lubricated the way you need to for some pleasurable exercise.

Underlying conflicts

Through numerous studies, it’s been proven that women are most self-conscious about their bodies. If it’s the first time they’re going to engage in intimacy, there’s a chance that they’re thinking about how they look at that angle instead of focusing on what’s important – reaching that orgasmic level of pure satisfaction.

Stressful day = no mojo in your pants

Above all else, stress is the biggest cock-block to ever roam the earth. It’s practically impossible to get in the mood when you’re stressed out about something. Whatever it is will inevitably take over your emotions; take over your mind- inevitably, taking over your sexual performance. Do yourself a favor, take a deep breath & exhale. Let go of the stress and try to concentrate on how hot your partner looks, hopefully that’ll get things moving in the right direction.

These are some of the few, but some of the few that are most detrimental. Just remember to clear your mind and enjoy the ride!

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Indications that you may just be a booty call

You’re either reading this post because you’re overly curious to what a “booty call” is or you’ve got suspicions about being only a booty call to that someone. Here are some telltale signs that they might only be using you for your goods. It’s an unfortunate predicament but it happens more often than you’d assume.

We figured that knowing is better than not knowing. You can read our key indicators and make your own assumptions.

-You text more than you talk
The more limited your conversation is with this specific “someone” the more suspicious you should be. You’ll notice that they rarely call and almost always text when they want to talk. The less personal the conversation is, the less they have an emotional connection to you.

-They always seem to be “too busy” to hang out when you want to

If you were of any importance in their life, they would make some time for you (not time to hook up) – we mean real quality time. If they only spend time with you before/after you hook-up it should raise a huge red flag; to put it in layman’s terms they only spend time with you when they’ve gotten laid or are about to get laid.

-They refuse to meet your friends or are “too busy”
Again, this reaffirms the “no-emotional” connection they’d like to maintain in your relationship. The less they know about you, the better. The only thing they really need you for is... (we’ll let you fill in the blank). Just keep in mind that any real relationship requires some type of emotional investment, if they refuse to invest time to meet the people that are important to you – you should question their intentions.

-You can’t recall any in-depth conversation you've had with them... EVER
This is probably the cherry on top - if every conversation you’ve had with them consists of you and them eventually hooking up – consider yourself a booty call. It’s not the most horrible thing in the world; at least you’re aware of it now. Keep in mind that real relationships have value and depth in their conversations and if this person won’t even give you that, kick ‘em to the curb and keep it moving to the next one.

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Don’t waste an opportunity to orgasm

Sex alone can be quite stressful, especially when it’s the first time with your current partner. Although there are probably endless tips on how to enhance an orgasm, we thought we’d focus on three particular things that might get in the way of an orgasm- these are especially true for women. Avoid thinking the following things while you’re getting busy, we wouldn’t want you to waste a perfectly good orgasm opportunity!

Avoid thinking of anything on your “to-do” list 
Women are infamous for creating lists- chore lists, grocery lists, list of bills, ect. Also, depending on your profession, work-related tasks may run through your head as things begin to get hot and heavy. It shouldn’t happen, you shouldn’t be thinking about your next task at hand. Don’t think about stopping to get gas on your way home, and definitely don’t think about what you need to buy during your next Target run. Focus on the lover in front of you; think of what you can do to please them.

Avoid thinking about how you look at that moment
C’mon, let’s be realistic- you’re having sex not shooting a five page spread for Vanity Fair. Don’t think of what angle is your best, what side your lover is seeing you from. Stressing about what you look like is only going to prolong the wait until you’re the big O. Instead of focusing on your body, why don’t you focus on your lover’s – chances are you’ll become more aroused once you feel their body up a bit.

Avoid trying to foresee your future 
The more you wonder, “when is it going to happen?” the more anxious your body gets; the more anxious your body gets the less likely it is to relax enough to feel any kind of pleasure. Just relax and enjoy the ride, no pun intended.

To summarize, you should worry less about you and redirect that energy into adding pleasure to the entire experience. Chances are, the more your partner is satisfied, the more they’ll want to return the favor.

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