Indications that you may just be a booty call

You’re either reading this post because you’re overly curious to what a “booty call” is or you’ve got suspicions about being only a booty call to that someone. Here are some telltale signs that they might only be using you for your goods. It’s an unfortunate predicament but it happens more often than you’d assume.

We figured that knowing is better than not knowing. You can read our key indicators and make your own assumptions.

-You text more than you talk
The more limited your conversation is with this specific “someone” the more suspicious you should be. You’ll notice that they rarely call and almost always text when they want to talk. The less personal the conversation is, the less they have an emotional connection to you.

-They always seem to be “too busy” to hang out when you want to

If you were of any importance in their life, they would make some time for you (not time to hook up) – we mean real quality time. If they only spend time with you before/after you hook-up it should raise a huge red flag; to put it in layman’s terms they only spend time with you when they’ve gotten laid or are about to get laid.

-They refuse to meet your friends or are “too busy”
Again, this reaffirms the “no-emotional” connection they’d like to maintain in your relationship. The less they know about you, the better. The only thing they really need you for is... (we’ll let you fill in the blank). Just keep in mind that any real relationship requires some type of emotional investment, if they refuse to invest time to meet the people that are important to you – you should question their intentions.

-You can’t recall any in-depth conversation you've had with them... EVER
This is probably the cherry on top - if every conversation you’ve had with them consists of you and them eventually hooking up – consider yourself a booty call. It’s not the most horrible thing in the world; at least you’re aware of it now. Keep in mind that real relationships have value and depth in their conversations and if this person won’t even give you that, kick ‘em to the curb and keep it moving to the next one.

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Don’t waste an opportunity to orgasm

Sex alone can be quite stressful, especially when it’s the first time with your current partner. Although there are probably endless tips on how to enhance an orgasm, we thought we’d focus on three particular things that might get in the way of an orgasm- these are especially true for women. Avoid thinking the following things while you’re getting busy, we wouldn’t want you to waste a perfectly good orgasm opportunity!

Avoid thinking of anything on your “to-do” list 
Women are infamous for creating lists- chore lists, grocery lists, list of bills, ect. Also, depending on your profession, work-related tasks may run through your head as things begin to get hot and heavy. It shouldn’t happen, you shouldn’t be thinking about your next task at hand. Don’t think about stopping to get gas on your way home, and definitely don’t think about what you need to buy during your next Target run. Focus on the lover in front of you; think of what you can do to please them.

Avoid thinking about how you look at that moment
C’mon, let’s be realistic- you’re having sex not shooting a five page spread for Vanity Fair. Don’t think of what angle is your best, what side your lover is seeing you from. Stressing about what you look like is only going to prolong the wait until you’re the big O. Instead of focusing on your body, why don’t you focus on your lover’s – chances are you’ll become more aroused once you feel their body up a bit.

Avoid trying to foresee your future 
The more you wonder, “when is it going to happen?” the more anxious your body gets; the more anxious your body gets the less likely it is to relax enough to feel any kind of pleasure. Just relax and enjoy the ride, no pun intended.

To summarize, you should worry less about you and redirect that energy into adding pleasure to the entire experience. Chances are, the more your partner is satisfied, the more they’ll want to return the favor.

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